When someone is hurting, ask if you can pray with them.

First, ask them, “I can see that you are in pain. May I pray with you — right now?”

If possible, ask what is causing so much pain. Listen without judging them and respect their right to privacy.

Ask the person whether they want the Holy Spirit to come into their life and help them. Tell them that, “God loves you very much and His power can overcome your problems.”

Don’t worry about what to say, but keep your words short and simple. You may decide to say the Our Father together.

Then you might say something like, “Holy Spirit please come and help (name) who is carrying a heavy burden (briefly mention). There is much sadness and pain in their life and they desperately need your help.”

It is not our words but the action of the Holy Spirit that heals and restores lives. Holding the person’s hand or placing your hand on their shoulder can bring a sense of coming together before God. You can both either stand or kneel, or even sit down. God doesn’t mind.

The most healing thing that we can do is to bring Jesus into the center of their sorrow. Our main task is not to give advice or get rid of their pain — which usually we are unable to do. It is important to be conscious of their burdens.

You may decide to end by saying something like this: “Jesus, I know that You will help (name). Lord, we will love and praise You all the days of our life.”

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