When someone is hurting, ask if you can pray with them. First, ask them, “I can see that you are in pain. May I pray with you — right now?”

If possible, ask what is causing so much pain. Listen without judging them and respect their right to privacy.

Ask the person whether they want the Holy Spirit to come into their life and help them. Tell them that, “God loves you very much and His power can overcome your problems.”

Don’t worry about what to say, but keep your words short and simple. You may decide to say the Our Father with them.

Then you could say something like, “Holy Spirit please come and help (name) who is carrying a heavy burden (briefly mention). There is much sadness and pain in their life and they desperately need your help.”

Holding the person’s hand or placing your hand on their shoulder can bring a sense of coming together before God.

You may decide to end by saying something like: “Jesus, I know that You will help (name). Lord, we will love and praise You all the days of our life.”

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