1. DOES YOUR SPOUSE MEET YOUR NEED FOR AFFECTION?
Shown by hugs, kisses, holding hands, date nights, phone calls, emails etc.

2. DOES YOUR SPOUSE MAKE TIME FOR REAL CONVERSATION WITH YOU, FREE FROM OUTSIDE DISTRACTIONS?
Husbands and wives need to talk to each other and LISTEN.

3. IS YOUR SPOUSE EXPLICIT AND FORTHCOMING ABOUT ANY PRESENT OR FUTURE PLANS?

4. IS YOUR SPOUSE WILLING TO SHARE EQUALLY BUDGETING AND FINANCIAL DECISIONS?

5. DOES YOUR SPOUSE SHARE EQUALLY IN THE ROLE OF PARENTING, WHERE POSSIBLE?

6. DOES YOUR SPOUSE RESPECT THE NEED FOR A MUTUAL SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP?

7. IS YOUR SPOUSE A GOOD FRIEND AND COMPANION?

8. DOES YOUR SPOUSE RESPECT YOUR NEED FOR PERSONAL TIME?

9. DOES YOUR SPOUSE FORGIVE AND FORGET?